Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.

Candle Life~

Today I am up with my own philosophy and I really know what  a piece of junk it is, but I still want you to give it a read!

Candle life is a way of spending your life. You must have heard that a candle burns itself to give light to others, but nay, that’s not what I am talking about! Read this:

Yesterday when the lights went off (thanks to load-shedding to help me get a post idea ) and unfortunately, the power generator didn’t work too, we had to have a candle-light dinner!😀

At some point of the story, a candle was about to fall on the table-cloth. I, startled by the sudden scene, took a step backwards with a little scream. But my father took  a step forward and saved the candle from falling, and also us from any possible mishap. Well, this gave food to my thought: There are two stories in everybody’s world. If the candle is about to fall from where it stands, you would take a sudden step backwards by fear of fire. However, if you know at the moment how dangerous would stepping back be, you would immediately leap towards it and stick it to the holder again!”

Not over yet. “If a sudden mishap occurs to your life, or is about to occur in your life, some will be fear-stricken and will take a step back. Or they could even freeze at the moment. But the point is, if you don’t get over it fast, or don’t act responsively and responsibly, it could create a greater mishap. A bigger tragedy. So well, learn to see what happens, breathe it in, live it. Move on. ”

Those who let go of fears and their personal ‘if-and-what-if’s, get to handle the situations better.

16 responses

  1. erm. really move on?
    But what if that’s actually a bad decision? What if the candle is meant to fall?

    November 29, 2012 at 2:59 pm

    • Amira, if the candle is meant to fall, nothing can stop it from falling. But we can’t see that far, so we have to do what the best possible thing to do is at that moment, and stop the candle from falling..🙂

      November 29, 2012 at 9:50 pm

  2. Reblogged this on Ordinary girl's peculiar blog.

    November 29, 2012 at 9:51 pm

  3. JasmineKyleSings

    I love this. And that your dad saved the day!! Catching a falling candle! Wow

    December 7, 2012 at 8:43 am

  4. This was a really good insight into the reality that life presents to us and what to do when bad things happen.

    December 9, 2012 at 11:38 pm

    • I thank you for your kind appreciation and I am glad you agree to it!
      Do keep visiting my blog:)

      December 9, 2012 at 11:57 pm

  5. Your blog post title reminded me of “Zindagi shamma ki surat ho khudaya meri”❤
    Anyhow, back to your post thats pretty deep. Nice insight🙂

    August 3, 2013 at 12:06 pm

    • love that poem! And it sounds a pretty good way to sum up this post: Zindagi shamma ki soorat ho Khudaya meri!🙂❤
      Thankyou for reading and commenting! Love your feedbacks!
      – Maria

      August 4, 2013 at 10:03 pm

  6. rjl2727

    so, that must be how i keep stumbling into the big tragedies.

    October 20, 2013 at 7:20 am

    • That’s a pretty old post of mine, but well I still believe that one who lets got of their fears and step forward, stay successful.

      October 21, 2013 at 7:00 pm

  7. fahaad humayun

    You are a born writer
    And to sum up those who show courage at the times of disaster and those who get scared

    May 10, 2014 at 11:42 am

  8. miss.mysterious

    Its ahmazing what paper pencil and load shedding can do.😄

    July 2, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    • Looool. Not so bad, huh? :p
      Yar mae itni si thi jab ye likha tha. :3

      July 2, 2015 at 6:57 pm

      • miss.mysterious

        Not bad at all.😄
        Koi baat nahi mai aapsay bhi chotee thee. X3

        July 2, 2015 at 7:28 pm

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